


Well, our fertility journey started and ended the same way...with just a little drama. Perfect book ends.
Ok, so before I go any further...let me please put a "proceed with caution" in here. I know that many of my beloved fellow bloggers and friends are expecting...so I will place a "caution" notice in front of any parts that you should overlook. Please enjoy your special time and look forward to the magical experience of child birth. No need to hear yet another labor story!

So, here is the story of how our beautiful Miles John arrived to bless and complete our family...
January 19th (38wks), 2008
We arrived at the hospital at around 8:30am or so and Dr J arrived aroun 9:15am and had me admitted. I was 3-4cm, 75% effaced, and -1 station. She broke my water right away.
9:25am - They started the IV of Pitocen
10:55am - I got my epidural...and let me say, JUST IN TIME! It was heaven!
11:25am - 4-5cm, almost 100% effaced, and 0 station
12:30pm - Started feeling low pressure
1:00pm - 6'ish cm
1:20pm - 7-8cm (Dr thought about another 1/2 hour to be fully dilated)
1:40pm - I asked the Dr to check me because of the low pressure...10cm!
1:45pm'ish - Started pushing
4 -5 contractions later....
2:01pm - Introducing Miles John into the world!
7pds 10oz
20inches
Naturally Brad and I were busy admiring our sweet newborn and the proud papa was taking pictures.
(Here's where the caution comes into play)
For some reason my placenta was being slower than normal to deliver....but we did it and everything looked fine. At first. Then comes the part that Brad refers to as "controlled panic".
Dr J and the nurses started to work very fast and looked concerned. Dr J explained to me that I was bleeding heavier than she'd like, so they were giving me shots to stop the bleeding. Those didn't work.
Within 10 minutes of delivering Miles, I was being rushed into the maternity OR so they could try to figure out why the bleeding was happening and get it to quit. I, at this point, was feeling quite light headed and even heard them calling for a hemmorage kit...but was not too concerned.
...Until we got into the OR and people started rushing around me with flushed faces, hair that was down was now pulled back into pony tails, and my Dr had called in another Dr to assist. The last thing I remember was the anesthesiologist telling the Dr he was going to put me under.
When I woke up I was coughing, my throat really hurt, and I was laboring to breathe. The anesthesiologist was explaining my throat hurt because of the intebation tube and then my Dr came in and told me they were going to start a blood transfusion (2 bags) as I had lost a lot of blood and they needed to get my hemoglobin back up. She explained that I had what is called a Post Partum Hemmorage and that for some reason my uterus did not start contracting after delivery which is why they could not get the bleeding to stop. While they were in the OR the drugs they gave me finally kicked in and the bleeding finally slowed.
Brad later told me that Dr J told him that I lost about 3 pints of blood in the delivery room...before we even got into the OR, thus the concern and rush to the OR.
So much for the easy, quick, textbook delivery. Um, did I mention that my insurance doesn't cover L&D? This we knew about...and I have been somewhat concerned about the bill...but figured it wouldn't be too outrageous. Ya. Ah ha. (Mmmm...doesn't a real fruit juice smoothie sound good right now? I know of a place that sells AWESOME ones and the service is great...go buy 1...or 2...or 10! LOL!) Well, I guess the important part is that Miles is perfect and healthy and I'm recovering and doing great. My hemoglobin is still low, but I'm home and enjoying life with my boys! (Brad's cooking me a steak right now...high in iron you know!)
Ok, so now for the fun stuff...Miles
He is absolutely amazing. And to think that this wonderful child was on ice (Frozen embryo) for 19 months just enforces what a miracle he is.
Because I labored and delivered so quickly, he had some bruising of the face...but already he looks so much better. He's got a FULL head of DARK hair and looks so much like Max did when he was born. We really are so happy and despite a slightly scary beginning...my reunion with him (around 5:30pm that night) was so fulfilling. Brad and I are just full of pride and joy to have our little Miles home, in our arms, and completing our clan!
Again, we wanted to thank everyone for their love and support and all of the well wishes leading up to his birth! A very special THANK YOU to my wonderful OB (Dr Jacob) and the great staff at Abbott Northwestern Hospital! Everyone was so wonderful to us! Last but not least...to the amazing Dr Stassart and the RMIA family...words will never be enough to tell you how thankful I am for your kindness, perseverance, and medical wisdom! You have fulfilled our dreams and made miracles happen!
Well, you know if wouldn't be a J post without an attempt at humor...so here's my funny story.
Here's me...getting ready to go the hospital and trying to curl my hair while having contractions...and Brad's all, "Um...why are you even bothering to do that??" (leave it to a guy to ask that...all the mama's out there will understand this!) and I told him, "I don't want my son to come into the world to an ugly mother!". Tee hee...I know...only me. Anyways...ya, after the trip to the OR...let's just say that I wasn't exactly looking my best. I can't tell you how many "Wow, you REALLY look so much better today or now!" I heard from about 20 different people over the past 2 days. Nice. :)
Anyway...never fear...plenty of pictures to come. I've got about 120 pictures from the hospital to upload later. The pictures above were taken today from a photography team at the hospital. We were suckers and bought the package...I figure...what's another $100 tacked on to our bill, right?! :)
Love,
A thankful Mama J